Who Are You?
WHO ARE YOU? Oftentimes, it is our desire to be linked with prospering identities, those who have carved a niche for themselves in given areas of their lives. We feel good when we are called so and so, “the second”, “the one-millionth”; there is a tremendous excitement when we are told we act like popular celebrities, dress like certain named pop-stars, or talk like those we’ve been trying to imitate for ages. We could live and breathe for recognition based on someone else's budding or budded identity. Going under the knife to possess their physiognomic features is the rosiest of the aspirations. Those of us who are yet to watch a dollar fly away permanently into carved noses and sumptuous bodies have found relief in make-overs. Like water, we bear the tint of several identities as our taste buds evolve. Such is life, anyway. Value what matters I can't agree more with Malcolm Forbes, who said that people tend to overvalue what they are not, and undervalue what the